7.28.2009

Six Steps

While I was out of town over the weekend visiting with friends Scott sent me this video he had made with his phone. It melted my heart and brought tears to my eyes. We have been working with Edie all summer on walking with a push toy. Most days she wants nothing to do with it while others she will give it a try. We started by holding her entire body up while she pushed. After a few weeks we moved to just holding her under her bottom while she pushed. And now look at her! Six steps! If you listen closely you can hear her say "Da Da" while she is walking.

Of course once I got home I tried to see her do this in person and again she wanted no part of it. Each time we tried to stand her up to the handles she would literally hold her knees up in the air so that her feet would not touch the ground. She would dangle in that position for a while and start to whine. I think all she really wanted to do was be left alone to play with her new doll house.

She is so fun to play with and now she has really began to "play". Don't get me wrong she still likes to pull out everything from her toy box and throw it on the floor. But she has now also started to concentrate on one toy and actually play with it for a period of time. We bought her a Little People doll house complete with daddy, mommy and baby. Right now she likes to put the people through the door and close it, through the windows and peek in then she pulls them out and does it over and over. She lays on her belly so she peek through the door and see where they fall. Last night I was playing "daddy" and I would hold him outside of the door and play like he was talking to her. While I was doing this I would make him wiggle back and forth. She looked at him and studied his moving. She then took mommy and placed her on the floor - held both of the mommy's hands with her little fingers and wiggled mommy back and forth just like I was. It was so cute. She is so observant and is constantly trying to mimic what we do and say.

On Friday she even tried to hold up just three fingers. For what ever reason I have been stuck on the number three and showing her three fingers while saying three. I am always saying things like....."Edie has 3 crackers", 'Edie has 3 books", etc., etc. Friday while at her changing table I told her "Edie has had 3 dirty diapers today" and I held up three fingers. I promise she looked at her hand, looked back at mine and spread her fingers, then pushed down her thumb. She was trying to say 3!!

It is the little things like this that make me love her more and more each day. The video is a little grainy and her pants are falling down - but who cares. Our baby is WALKING!!!!


7.24.2009

Let Me Catch You Up..........

First Time for Everything

I have only seen this on TV in the past but today I actually saw it first hand in my kitchen! My little Ladybug was so exhausted after eating her dinner that she literally passed out in her chair! I turned my back for a seconded and when I turned back around she was asleep. She was so funny and cute I just had to get a few photos. Even after I washed off her hands and face and removed her tray she still never woke. Poor baby. She slept for three straight hours (in her bed). She has had a big, busy week and she deserved the rest.

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7.23.2009

Welcome Wylie

Edie has a new niece! Wylie Christina Smith arrived Wednesday weighing 7lbs 11oz and 20". Edie could not wipe the smile off of her face when she saw her. She is really curious about this teeny-weeny baby. We now have to teach her that she is not a toy baby. Wylie's Bubba and Sissy are also very curious and VERY excited. Aunt Kelli is doing well and they will all go home on Saturday. Welcome to the world Wylie. God is truly amazing!!

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Doctors, Doctors and More Doctors

waiting......waiting.......and more waiting........

I feel like we have spent the past month in the Dr.'s office. Our most recent visit brought us some good and not so good news. Dr. Johnson, Edie's cardiologist, informed us that her VSD is still looking good which is - it is still there but so small at this point he does not feel it will have any effect on her. FANTASTIC!! We were excited to get this news and for an instant we saw the light at the end of the tunnel. Then we moved on to the new condition.

It was recently discovered that Edie has a cleft in her right valve. This cleft is allowing blood to leak in minimal amounts basically in the center portion of her heart. The only explanation for not seeing this earlier is that it has always been there but as Edie grows and her heart grows the cleft, which is a tear in the valve, has gotten larger and larger and is now showing. There are two ways of correcting this condition and both would require surgery. One would be going in and stitching the cleft closed. If this is not possible she would need to have the valve replaced which would lead to repeat surgeries to replace the size of the valve as Edie's heart grows. We choose to focus on scenario #3 and that is it will remain small or even better close on its own as her Partial AV Canal did and just as her VSD is trying to do.


We will go back again in 6 months for an additional EKG and ultrasound. We have been STRONGLY advised that this is not something that would cause Edie complications over night. She could be 2, 3, 5, 25 and still be able to thrive with a cleft in her valve. The size of the valve is what determines the steps to take. We know the power of prayer. Edie has so many Prayer Warriors we know that God will see her through. We are so incredibly grateful to be surrounded by so many people who love and care for Edie and our family. We love you and we thank you for your continued support.

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4 Years

Scott and I celebrated our 4th Wedding Anniversary last week - July 16th. Above are some of my favorite photos from the (first) best day of our life. We celebrated the following night by having dinner at 26 a "hip" little restaurant downtown. The atmosphere was fun and the food delicious. Looking back on these past 4 years I am amazed at how much we have grown, how much we have learned and how much we have to be thankful for. I am so thankful for my husband. Scott is an amazing husband, an even more amazing father and my best friend. But most of all he puts up with me!

We did go out for a bit after dinner but not for long. We were due to arrive the following morning at Kids First Adventure which is sort of like a Safe House for the children in the Sims ville area of Alabaster. As a community outreach project through our small group at church we installed a fence, packed a gravel basket ball court, cooked hot dogs and held lots of activities for the children who attend this facility. It was a fun day and it felt good to see so many smiles on so many faces. Young and old.

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My Friend Merritt

Edie and Merritt had a great play date as did the Mommy's. They played with toys, ate some lunch and played in the pool. Merritt was not up to a photo shoot by the end of the day. They were pooped from all of the fun!

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7.15.2009

First Dentist Visit

Edie had her first trip to the dentist to show off all 7 1/2 of her teeth. It was a pretty easy visit. After Edie entertained everyone in the waiting area with her toothbrush skills (she loves to chew on her green toothbrush) we headed to the back. We had fun with the hygienist just playing with all of the gadgets (she will one day cringe at). But today it was all about fun. She got a gum massage, water shots, tongue suckers and all kinds of goodies to take home.
After all of the playing the Dr. came in to assess Edie's teeth. As we already knew Edie's teeth are coming in - in a random pattern which is not uncommon for DS babies. However, he said that her pattern is even more random than the norm for DS. Everything about Edie is unique which makes our life all that more interesting.
I was advised that she may never even get all of her baby teeth which may lead to not getting all of her adult teeth - while in another case she may have too many teeth!! It makes my head spin! So we decided not to even think about the unknown right now. She will go back after her 2nd birthday and at that time if all of her teeth have not appeared we will then have x-rays to see what is going on. But for now she is looking good. She is getting her molars which is making eating easier and more fun because we get to eat all kinds of things now!
Edie's favorite foods are fish sticks, mini corn dogs, Gigi's Mac and Cheese, sauteed squash (on her good days), green beans, carrots, grilled cheese and ANYTHING bread related especially when it has syrup on it. Desserts are cooked apples, mini vanilla wafers, pudding and cool whip. Tonight we had a chicken pot pie which I just knew she would love. Not so much. Edie is just too smart! She knew it was not homemade like Gigi's so she fed most of it to Ziggy. At least Ziggy left the table with a full belly. I guess experimenting is what it is all about - right?

7.09.2009

4th of July



We had a nice relaxing holiday weekend. Friday even felt like a holiday which is unusual. I did not touch my computer or go near anything work related and Scott was able to take off after lunch and join us at the pool. To sum up our weekend we swam, ate, slept then we swam, ate and slept some more and it was WONDERFUL! Edie was pretty water logged by Saturday night. She got to bed early and Scott and I sat outside on the patio and watched the fireworks in downtown Helena. It was a great show - long and full of beautiful bangs!

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7.02.2009

Photo Contest

Grethel Van Epps is celebrating her 2nd year as a "Professional" Photographer. And in doing so she is having a photo contest of some of her favorite photos she has taken over the past year. And she chose one of Edie's!! The winner of the contest will get a 16x20 of the photo. So go to http://www.gvephotography.com/blog/the-2nd-anniversary-with-a-contest/ and vote for Edie!!

Edie is #3. It is quick and easy to vote. Just scroll to bottom of link and cast your vote! Hurry - the contest ends Friday July 3rd!

6.26.2009

UAB Adult Down Syndrome Clinic

This is a recent article on the Adult Down Syndrome Clinic at UAB. I tried to copy the photo but was unsucessful. But if you click on the health & fitness link you can see the happy couple. The three categories that Dr. Lose refers to is astounding to me. It also goes to show how times are changing and most importantly it goes to show how capable HUMANS who are diagnosed with DS can accelerate in life. They just need guidance, support, understanding and A LOT of love. Edie has already shown us in her short 1 1/2 years what wonderful things she can do some with little assistance. As a matter of fact - she picks up most things all by herself. I have already noticed since being back from a trip that she is now stacking blocks, trying to comb her own hair, brushing her own teeth (well maybe just chewing on the toothbrush) and just this morning she found a pair of shoes and tried to put it on her foot! She is talking a lot too! I know Edie will have a happy fulfilling life I just can't wait to see what her generation will be doing 20 years from now!

§ UAB clinic helps adult Down syndrome patients make progress
Posted by Dave Parks -- Birmingham News June 25, 2009 5:45 AM
Categories: Health & Fitness
Dave Parks/Birmingham News
Heather Larkin and Cody Pope share a happy moment while taking a break recently from medical evaluations at UAB's Down syndrome clinic for adults. Larkin and Pope are both from Tuscaloosa. The clinic is one of a few in the U.S. for adults with Down syndrome. It has been open for about two years, and provides a wide variety of specialized care.
Cody Pope used to be an Auburn University football fan.
"Not any more," he smiles.
That's because his girlfriend, Heather Larkin, is a University of Alabama football fan, and Pope switched loyalties so they would have more in common.
"That's what happy couples are all about," he says. "We are officially a couple."
But Pope and Larkin, both 22 and from Tuscaloosa, have something else in common. They were both born with Down syndrome, a genetic condition that accounts for the largest group of intellectually deficient people in the United States -- more than 400,000 men, women and children.
Pope and Larkin came in recently for evaluation together, with family members, at the University of Alabama at Birmingham's Down syndrome clinic for adults, one of only a few such clinics in the country.
Medical breakthroughs, particularly open-heart surgery, have extended the average lives of people with Down syndrome from about 19 years old in 1969 to 60 years old today. But a longer life span has created another challenge -- providing special care for adults with Down syndrome.
Caused by an extra chromosome 21, Down syndrome is linked to a multitude of health problems such as hearing loss, heart malformations, high blood pressure, digestive problems and vision disorders. Those with the condition are also prone to early aging and dementia.
People with Down syndrome have distinctive facial features and often are short in stature. The syndrome is usually accompanied by mild to moderate intellectual disability; occasionally the disability is severe.
Dr. Edward Lose, director of the clinic at UAB, said it is important to get adults with Down syndrome into the medical system and connected to a primary care physician.
That can be tough because providing medical care for somebody with Down syndrome require patience, time and wide variety of tests and evaluations.
"It's a lengthy process," he explained. "These people are here for hours."
Also, many doctors are reluctant to accept them as patients because most are covered by Medicaid, a state-operated insurance plan that pays relatively low rates.
The UAB clinic opened two years ago, and so far has evaluated only 75 patients. The clinic has served mostly as a consultant for the patients' regular doctors and has found primary care doctors for some patients.
"There have got to be more than 75 people with Down syndrome in Jefferson County alone," Lose said. "My major concern so far is we really don't know who's out there."
Unfortunately, the history of caring for people with Down syndrome is riddled with neglect. In the past, babies with Down syndrome were often allowed to die, and doctors viewed medical treatment as futile, Lose said.
Even today, the vast majority of women who undergo genetic testing during pregnancy will undergo an abortion rather than have a baby with Down syndrome, according to studies.
Still, there has been a general movement toward acceptance of people with Down syndrome and appreciation of their value as human beings. Most recently, the life and death of John Mark Stallings, the son of former University of Alabama football coach Gene Stallings, touched the hearts of people in this state.
Lose said there is generally a correlation between age and how well a patient with Down syndrome is doing. He sees them falling into three groups:
• Patients older than 45. "They had very little medical care. They also had very little education. They're not doing very well. Some of them have had all their teeth pulled, things like that."
• Patients in their late 20s to 45. "They do better. Their medical treatment was better. Their education was better, although for some of them education was a blank piece of paper and a box of crayons."
• The youngest group of adults. "They are doing very well. They are active, loving members of their families."
Most patients he sees are employed, sometimes in unusual jobs. One patient worked as Chuck E. Cheese in a restaurant, entertaining children.
"They're excellent workers," Lose said. "Unlike all of the rest of us, they love to go to work every day."
The UAB clinic opened with the help of a two-year grant and support from Parent Advocates Down Syndrome. The grant, which provides about $55,000 a year, runs out next spring.
PADS has provided $25,000 in seed money to create an endowment fund named after John Mark Stallings, and contributions are needed, Lose said. The clinic operates two days a week, and Lose would like it to open five days a week.
"We need at least $5 million and probably $20 million in the endowment," he said. "We will do it. I have a feeling that things will come through for us. It may take awhile."
To contact the UAB clinic for adults with Down syndrome, call 205-335-9385.
dparks@bhamnews.com

6.22.2009

Happy Father's Day!



We had a great weekend together. Saturday we went the the Farmers Market in Helena and then we worked in the yard a bit and then went out to the pool. The water was so warm but still felt so good! Edie and I were so excited to give Daddy his Father's Day gift we had to give it to him early at dinner Saturday night. Edie worked very hard on a coloring card (I will have to post a photo later). She colored in it, painted in it, put some pictures in it and even left a voice message for Daddy in it. I actually got lucky and recorded Edie saying "Da Da". It was a sweet card. Edie and I also got Daddy a few shirts and a pair of shorts. Edie picked out each of the shirts herself.

Sunday after church we met Stacey and Russell along with Carter and Ross at the Zoo. It was so HOT....miserably HOT....did I say HOT! Our intentions were to meet up and play in the water park area. However, once we got there and saw it-it was not at all what we were expecting. Apparently one side only was working and the other side was filled with big kids hogging all of the fun. There were just a few water spouts that shot out of the ground. And with all of the kids sitting on them, putting their mouths over them, etc. It left little water for Carter and Edie to play. So we went on to the petting zoo, the sea lion and the monkey's. We had a good time but we just could not take the heat any longer so we left and had a snow cone. Edie was a trooper. She had a few moments but I think it was due to the heat mainly and lack of napping. She had a 30 min nap on the way to the zoo. Needless to say after getting home, eating and having a bath she was fast asleep at 6:15!

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6.19.2009

Take Me Out to the Ball Game


Yesterday at The Bell Center we were singing Old McDonald and when the teacher held up the cow and asked what this was - Edie replied MOOOO! I was so proud of her! She even signed Dog when prompted during a book we read. She is slowly learning to take steps behind a baby grocery cart. She will take a few steps then sit on the floor and whimper. We know it is only because she does not want to do something that is hard and maybe scary for her - but she can do it. I know she can. We are still working hard on leaning to walk and cruise around tables and furniture. We are also still working hard on learning to not throw toys and to concentrate on one toy at a time. Edie is so active it is hard for her to play with one toy for longer than a few seconds. We have been advised to put away her toys and only pull out a few at at time or divide up her toys to morning, noon and night toys. It is just hard for me to take anything away from her that she enjoys - but I am going to have to be more self disciplined myself and follow the directions we have been given.

After a long day we ended up at the Birmingham Barrons game. Scott's company hosted a tent with food and drinks. This photo shows just how interested Edie was in watching the game. Maybe she takes after her mom?

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Little Ladybug

Not the best quality photos in the world, but just wanted to share. This is Edie all dressed up in her ladybug dress for church last Sunday. The nursery workers said she looked like a mini Dorthy in her red sparkly shoes. She even kept her bow in for most of the morning!

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15 Month Checkup @ 17 Months

So I had no idea we had to go back to the doc for a 15 month checkup. i thought after the 12 month we were free and clear! But after overhearing a friend talking about how much her baby weighed at her 15 month checkup I looked at Edie's paperwork and realized we had missed it. By about 2 months!! Edie was 2 days shy of her 17 month birthday when we finally went in.

Scott and I just knew chunky monkey had gained some weight and she weighed at least 20 lbs or more. But to our surprise she only weighed in at 19 lbs 12 oz. She does seem a lot heavier these days. She shows 50% in weight on the DS growth chart which is perfect and 90% in length which is really great. Hopefully she will have her daddy's height. She had two shots and did prefect, only a little cry. We are so proud of her and so thankful she is happy and healthy. What more could we ask for?

These are some photos from her big day. This is the norm at the office. As soon as she feels that paper under her she immediately tears it and trys to eat it. Everything is still going in her mouth these days.

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6.15.2009

PADS


A few months ago I posted on Edie's Golf Team for the 2009 PADS Golf Tournament. Above is a pic of the team - Johnny Mack Jones, Daryl Spears, Scott and Lee Cobb. While we were on vacation PADS hosted a family fun day at the zoo where they played and had a picnic lunch together. They also voted on new officers at this time. Scott was contacted by the previous President of PADS and was asked if he would be interested in being put on the ballot for VP of PADS. Of course he was happy to accept the nomination and to our surprise he was nominated as such. So you are now looking at the new VP of PADS - Parent Advocates Down Syndrome.
This is an honor for both Scott and I. As I know we will both become VERY involved in this organization and be a part of it for the rest of our lives. This is also a big undertaking as PADS has round-the-clock events, the biggest of which is the Buddy Walk and Golf Tournament. They have conferences around the globe as well as local events for people with DS of all ages. They are also very involved in the Aldult DS Clinic at UAB. This will give us a great opportunity to learn a lot and socialize with people of all ages with DS.
We have for the most part been exposed to babies and children with DS due to The Bell Center and the New Parents group. So this will give us great experience and knowledge on life beyond The Bell Center and what we can do to continue to advocate. It will also give us a glimpse of what to expect as Edie grows into a toddler, a teenager and an adult. We are thankful for this opportunity and I know Scott will do a great job in serving for this organization. Congratulations Daddy!!

6.09.2009

6.08.2009

Beach Bums

We just returned from our First Family Vacation. We have made several "mini" vacations over the past year - but this was our first real, "real" family vacation. We stayed in a house in Old Florida Village in Santa Rosa Beach, FL on Hwy 30A. It was a beautiful home located a few blocks from the beach. The weather was perfect for the most part. It did rain one day and a few times during the night, but it never put a damper on things. We played at the beach, the pool, we shopped, visited a water park in Niceville, FL and ate lots of great seafood.

Each morning Scott would drive down to the beach and set up the tent. He would then run back for his morning exercise and we would pack up the stroller and walk together for a fun day in the sand and sun. We did this so we could make a quick getaway in case Edie got cranky. All we would have to do was pack up the car and drive. However, Edie never did get cranky. She loved the beach - actually a lot more than I anticipated. She would play, take a nap under the tent, eat lunch, and then play more. She loved the water (salt water and all) she also loved to eat sand (a little more than I would have liked for her to). I thought the first time she got a hand full of sand she would think "oh that was a bad idea", but apparently she thought it was a great idea and she would eat more and more.

We ate A LOT of raw oysters. One of mine and Scott's favorite foods next to craw fish. We also cooked at home a few nights. We had a seafood market near our house so we rode the bikes down a few nights and picked up some seafood to cook at home and eat in. One night we cooked shrimp and afterwards I beat Scott in a game of Scrabble. The other night we devoured some excellent crab legs and watched a movie. On the other nights we met Gigi and Giddo for dinner at Stinky's (they came to the beach to and stayed in a condo in Destin). They surprised Edie with a Bear they had made for her at The Bear Factory. She was complete with hair bows, a bathing suit and a birth certificate. We named her Sunshine Bear. Edie loves to pull off all of her colorful bows.

Edie was a great travel companion. She never fussed one single time. We bought her a DVD player before we left so she could watch Baby Einstein videos (her favorite past time). She thought it was the MOST exciting thing in the world! EVERY time it would come on she acted as if she had just opened the best gift in the world! She was so cute and made some of the funniest facial expressions while in the car. We also stopped off at the Peach Park in Clanton and met Nannie for some ice cream and fried apple pie on the way home on Saturday. We had a great time at the beach and made lots of great memories. I can not wait to do it again!

We do have a few 1000 other photos to post. I will get these loaded ASAP - but for now, back to work :(

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5.26.2009

Happy Memorial Day!

We had a very relaxing Memorial Day weekend. Saturday we spent the day with Aunt Mindy, Chuck and several other friends at Chuck's Smith Lake house. Although it rained and we were not able to go swimming or boating we still had fun being indoors and just hanging out. Edie had fun being with Aunt Mindy and being held and hugged by everyone. She was adorable as always.
After church the Poole's came over and we went out to the pool. Edie had not napped all morning or afternoon so she took a quick nap at the pool before dinner. We had a boston butt Scott had bought and Chris made the greatest baked beans ever!! On Monday we did a little bit of nothing. We did finally venture out to WalMart to get some supplies for our up coming VACATION to the BEACH!!!!
We can NOT wait!! We will be leaving this Saturday and will not be back for a WHOLE WEEK!!! So look for many, many, many photos of Edie's first trip to the beach!
Until then we made a Memorial Day photo collage for you. Edie looked so cute in her Red, White and Blue I had to get some photos of her. My absolute favorite is the one of her on the bottom right with her legs hanging off the sofa. She has such a cute, pretty, perfect smile in this pic. Can you tell we are in love with our baby!

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Alex and Edie

Sunday Edie's friend Alex and her parents came over to play at the pool. The water was sooooo cold that Edie did not do any swimming. She enjoyed dipping her hands and feet in - but that is all I could stand for her to do. It was really freezing! But we had a great time just hanging out and later eating dinner and playing some more. Edie and Alex play really well together. She shares all of her toys well and just loves to watch other babies run around. However, I will say that when I shared some of Edie's goldfish crackers with Alex Edie did not like it very much. So she doesn't mind sharing toys. Just not her food!

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